The basic theory to which most people subscribe is that we grow wiser as we grow older. Most of us though would probably consider trading in their wisdom to get their youth back. It’s some food for thought anyway, especially when a sensitive area of your life is hurting. You know what this means. In your case, though, what you’ve learned is not yet obvious. Soon, it will be and when you fully understand how much better off you are now, you won’t ever want to turn back the clock.